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On Becoming A Mentor
By Stephanie Daniel
"Good mentors don't rescue. They support." Chip Bell, Managers
as Mentors
Think about a defining experience in your career, one where you felt
like you'd done your best work and were on top of the world. Where were
you? What did you accomplish? Who motivated you along the way? Chances
are you had a mentor that offered you guidance and expert advice, a person
who saw you for who you were and appreciated your true talents. This individual
might have been your manager or co-worker; perhaps it was a trusted colleague
from a different company. Regardless of who that person was, most likely
you will never forget the impact she or he had on your life and your career.
Maybe you've been placed in a mentorship role recently and want to pass
along the wisdom and knowledge you gained from your experience. Here are
some common traits found in people who are exceptional mentors.
- They are passionate listeners. As simplistic as it sounds,
excellent mentors make it a daily practice to listen before responding
and to ask for clarification when they don't understand a point. They
realize that personal anecdotes can be good teaching tools, but also appreciate
the fact that their protégé has a need to talk, to work through issues
in a safe, non-judgmental setting. Good mentors are great listeners and
particularly skilled at reflective listening; that is, interpreting and
restating the speaker's message so that both parties clearly understand
each other.
- They model their values and stay true to their beliefs. In
other words, they walk the talk. For example, if they say they are committed
to work-life balance, they "live" that belief themselves and
model it for their employees. Strong mentors realize that their words
and behavior carry power and are mindful of the fact that a harsh word
or action can inhibit their protégé and cause that individual to lose
trust and confidence.
- They help the protégé discover unique talents and
strengths, and avoid trying to mold the individual into something
they are not capable of or interested in being. They are skillful at bringing
out people's best ideas and strengths to achieve critical business objectives
while helping the protégé reach his or her full potential. They honor
the protégé and the process of learning.
- They celebrate the protégés successes and help
put setbacks and failures in perspective. Wise mentors look for ways to
acknowledge and celebrate their protégé's achievements to
help to keep them motivated, energized and challenged. They also provide
an open environment for the protégé to discuss setbacks and explore ways
to learn from failures and carry on. Rather than making vague statements
such as "you are a fine writer," smart mentors are specific
in their praise and feedback. They are sincerely interested in the individual
they are mentoring and are honest and consistent in their approach.
In the ideal, mentorship is a power-free relationship that fosters learning,
improvement, and new levels of mastery. It is one of the most important
roles an individual can hold in his or her career, and with some thoughtful
preparation and planning, it can also be one of the most rewarding.

Now
That You've Hired the Best, Here's How to Keep the Best
By Robert Carnegie
For the past few years, in a phenomenally tight labor market, you've
worked hard and spent a bundle of money attracting the best talent available.
Despite the turn in the economy, you still need to be vigilant to assure
your investment in your human resources pays off. That translates to focusing
more than ever on retention, motivation, and morale. This is not solely
a Human Resources department accountability! Every manager, at every level,
has an ongoing responsibility to create and maintain an environment that
keeps people energized, productive, and "engaged" in achieving
the mission and goals of the organization. And it's not simply a matter
of "keeping them happy".
Here are just ten things you can do:
- Keep 'em informed! Regularly communicate both the short- and long-term
goals of the organization. In these times of uncertainty, people want
and need to be "in the know".
- Clarify roles and responsibilities of all team members, so that you
avoid conflicts and misunderstandings about accountability. This is essential
especially if you've reorganized or reduced the workforce.
- Solicit all team members' expectations for you and of the company.
This does not mean you can meet all of those expectations, but better
to know them now than find out as they're leaving. See if some of these
expectations are "negotiable", and let them know the ones that
can't be met. Don't fill people with false hopes about their jobs or the
company's future.
- Quell rumors. Trying to neutralize gossip that's been going around
for a few weeks or even a few days is like trying to unring a bell.
- Ask employees what motivates them on the job. Certainly some will
say "more money", but look for the non-financial rewards that
many employees cherish: sincere praise, a chance to be heard, an opportunity
to learn a new skill, increased responsibility, respect.
- Don't allow an individual's negativity to spread. This stuff is more
contagious than the flu.
- Hold people accountable to do their jobs, and don't allow slackers
to put the burden on others. That person and others will interpret your
silence about someone dogging it as consent.
- Point out to each team member the direct relationship between doing
a great job and how they contribute to achieving the department and corporate
missions. Everyone contributes!
- Evidence a sense of urgency to solve problems and conflicts as soon
as they arise. Inactivity here can be disastrous.
- Provide frequent feedback, good or not so good, to all team members.
R. Carnegie Associates
Survey Results: What Motivates Me?
By Robert Carnegie
Over the past three years, in one of our most popular workshops, we've
kept a running tally, asking participants to check off the top six things
that motivated them most at work, from a list of over 30 items. This informal
poll includes over 700 people from all types of organizations: technology,
manufacturing, government, and non-profits, and it's incredible how consistent
this list is, no matter what the product or service, no matter what level
of employee we're talking to. Here are the top six motivators from our
poll, in order of rank:
# 1: RECOGNITION OF MY WORK
# 2: INTERESTING WORK
# 3: tie between CHANCE TO PARTICIPATE IN DECISIONS RELATED TO
MY WORK; and CHANCE FOR SELF-DEVELOPMENT & IMPROVEMENT
# 4: GOOD PAY (ok, it had to be here someplace)
# 5: BEING GIVEN RESPONSIBILITY
# 6: CHANCES FOR PROMOTION
For those of you who want to know a bit more, #7: KNOWING WHAT I DO COUNTS
FOR SOMETHING, and #8: RESPECT FOR ME AS A PERSON.
We encourage you to use the information above to create a more motivational
climate in your organization.
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